Category: Dating and Relationships
I know I go on and on about my bf but I truly love him. He's one of those guys who's incredible. He cooks for me, helps me clean, takes me everywhere I need to go. If I say I need something, he's there before I can even finish my sentence. He does it all without complaint, never asking anything in return. He's always finding ways to make me happy, no matter the situation. I wanna give back to him and show him just how much I appreciate all that he does for me. But I'm not sure how. I know Valintine's Day is coming up and I'm thinking maybe, I'll do something then, but if the timing's right, I'll do it sooner. The problem is he's not really a materialistic person and like me, he doesn't ask for much. He likes the simple things in life and just being together. So what should I get/do for him?
Don't get him candy, don't get him anything, just do something for him.
A great dinner perhaps?
Dress sexy for him during that dinner?
Treat him like a king, and be his queen.
hey, maybe you could reservations to a nice restront for dinner, it's not everyday you get to take your man out and simply pay. u no something like that, or maybe by a small box of chocolates. Something simple, something you don't all ways do, surprise him, that's all ways fun Can't think of any more suggestions at the moment but yah later..
tiff, i don't know if your boyfriend can see or not. well really it doesn't matter either way. you could write on different pieces of paper what he means to you and leave them all over the house. you could even use heart shaped papers and decorate them yourself. make your own valentine's. this wouldn't really be a materialistic thing, yet it's something that would show him how you feel and what he means to you. you could make the notes lead to the bedroom and have prepared a picnic in bed for the two of you, with different finger foods that you could feed to each other. a nice bottle of wine or champagne. and don't think you have to do all of this on valentine's day. my opinion it would probably mean more if done on a different day of the year.
hope this helps some. i'll keep thinking.
i know how you feel though. it's not like i feel like i need to repay my boyfriend, but he's just amazing and i want to give back to him.
Same here. I'm not doing it out of obligation but out of love. He can see but I'm a total so the notes/decorations wouldn't work for us, since I can't write in print. Nice idea though and I can still print him out a letter with the computer... Oooo! I can write him one in Greek so A. I can practise and B. it'll mean more. Awesome! . I like the idea of making him a dinner too. He's gonna love this. Thanks guys.
the letter is a grate idea, specially as you can't write in print, and if you kno how to clip art on the computer, you can still decarate it anyway.
I think a nice dinner and romantic evening would b nice.
hey Tiff, yeh, the dinner sounds great; maybe even a romantic night in a hotel somewhere if you can afford it!
Why not go on a bit of a holiday somewhere? :)
Hmmm! I like these, lol. And we just booked a table for two at Pizza Express for me and Kris when I brought him back here to meet the family before going home to his parents for 3 weeks over Christmas. Oopsy! Ah well! We're still solid after nearly 3 months so...
Jen.
Yeah, the letter's a great idea and making him his favorite meal. Well, I supose that since it's past V Day, you've had to have done something. So, what did you do? You've got me curious.
Isn't that a bit altruistic?